Sunday, January 17, 2016

STOP DENYING...START FACING THE PHOBIAS

                                                                   


After few days, our school life gonna end or has ended in a way out. There are some phobias I came across in my class 10th when I left my school and came to  a new world though the world was  different but everything was same  but the world next won’t be like it has been all now.somethings never change ,people’s expectations and our fulfillment. Most of the time we all been fulfilling someone’s other expectations be it anyone teachers, parents, friends, girlfriend’s or anyone. There’s only one relationship which doesn’t expects is FRIENDSHIP. There are 5 phobias every one of is afraid of.infact every day these phobias have been haunting.
WHAT WOULD HAPPEN, IF WE SAID WHAT WAS ON OUR MINDS, ALL DAY EVERYDAY? HOW DIFFERENT OUR EVERYDAY LIVES WOULD HAVE BEEN.
The very first fear is CHRONOPHOBIA (fear of tomorrow)this word tomorrow is a real slut .it doesn’t live with our present but every time it affects our present. we don’t have  to be professional’s in every field to build something armatures built  google,Facebook while titanic was built by professional and the rest is history. Why be afraid let’s take it on us. My future I make it, I spoil it. We must not give it on anyone else to blame on, that sucks. Do remember “Today is the tomorrow you created yesterday”.
The second fear is ATYCHIPHOBIA (fear of failure)failing at anything sucks, especially when all eyes are on you. Mistakes are Inevitable. So accept them, own them and let them shed the path of future. Who doesn’t fails, everyone does but the fact is how long you are going to stay with that just move on and let other things come to you. From class 10th to class 12th we have grown on with failing so that’s something which has to been lightly. We never fail ourselves, we always know what truth is we actually fail expectations which are never ours .so why be sorry for else expectations. When we expect and we fail that’s failure which is totally justified failure and which is very often found.
 The third failure is MNEMOPHOBIAS (fear of memories)nobody gives damn about school marks, syllabus, and tests. All one care’s is memories and we remember moments. Things end but memories life forever in heart. What stays in heart, stays with you all our life. We are going to spread away in different directions but memories will have their own place to life in. Even the seconds passed just passed won’t be back. Memories and time spent with friends are one’s special moment.
The fourth failure is AUTOPHOBIA (fear of me).Man’s one’s creator and own destroyer .He’s got constructive and destructive capabilities   within himself. All one needs to fear is fear himself none can scare one if he doesn’t fears. We grow up, we learn good and evils here .we win and lose here. We need to love ourselves before loving anyone else. You are your best friend, your enemy, your lover and your admirer. You make yourself.
The last fear is the fear one has to come across at some point of time in the school life. It’s THANATOPHOBIA (fear of losing someone who is very special is life)God made gaps between the fingers so that someone can fill those gaps and hold us all through our troubles and fears. Losing the grip of that hand is very painful. Such is with friends, losing friends and missing them is most painful of all. Things end belongings stay forever.No matter how strong a person is there is someone who makes him weak.
No one knows what’s next or what’s gonna happen tomorrow.Every night we go to bed without any assurance of being alive the next morning but still we wake up live that’s faith and hope.Hope is what we can have for the fears I have mentioned
  
STOP DENYING...START FACING
FEAR IS TEMPORARY AND REGRET LASTS FOREVER.SO SPEAK OUT OUR HEART TO ALL BEFORE IT’S TOO LATE AND TIME LOSES IT’S WAY ALL YOU ‘LL HAVE TO WATCH IT THEN WILL BE OUR REGRETFUL FACE IN MIRROR AND EVERYTHING WILL SLIP BY OUR HANDS.BEFORE THINGS SHATTER COLLECT THEM AND FRAME THEM IN OUR HEART.

                                          HAPPY HOPEFUL FUTURE GUYS...

 

                                                                                                                                                                     @VISHAL RANJAN                  

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